Scunci Occasions Hollywood Half Updo Silver

I bought this hoping to use it for a wedding as I am not very good (or patient!) with styling my hair and figured this would be an easy way to make my hair look a bit different. The instructions seem easy to follow but it just doesn't stick in my hair...

I bought this today in the hope that it would jazz up my work look! Unfortunately I can't get it to work. the Velcro does not stick to the other side as its the same type of Velcro! It will need pins to hold down and im not sure it will ever look as...